Susan CoatesDebunking the Myth that Sexual People are ImmatureWe’re taught that to be a successful child and adult that we must learn how to delay gratification. Good things come to those who wait…4 min read·Sep 21, 2023----
Susan CoatesWhy Women Don’t Read EroticaNow don’t get me wrong — I’m a woman and I read erotica, I love erotica, and I know many women who love it, too. I’ve used it for self…5 min read·Jan 12, 2021----
Susan CoatesOur Pleasure Should Not Be a PrivilegeAt a time when self care can feel even more selfish — when it can feel (and be) privileged to get what we need given the state of our…5 min read·Sep 15, 2020--3--3
Susan CoatesHow to Shift a Compliant RelationshipCelebrating Your Desires While Honoring Your Partner’s Limitations5 min read·Sep 1, 2020----
Susan CoatesHow Relationship Ambiguity Leaves Couples Over Merged while Still Disconnected, and What to Do…How to Resource Our Dire Need for Both Space and Connection in Relationship6 min read·Aug 17, 2020----
Susan CoatesDiary of a Sex Coach: The Longing to Connect Beyond the Masks and the Zoom ScreenAnother bleeding day in only two weeks. More tears. Another day when I tell my lover, Ouch!, please don’t suck that hard on my…3 min read·Jul 22, 2020----
Susan CoatesTake Dysfunction Off the Table and Claim Your More Functional Desire Pathways in RelationshipFunctional relationship design can custom-fit relationship to serve your specific needs and desires and empower you to be more YOU.4 min read·Mar 5, 2020----
Susan CoatesIdentifying Boundaries By Identifying What You Trust in ActionA more empowering approach to trust in relationships4 min read·Mar 3, 2020----
Susan CoatesMotherhood Taboo: The Postpartum MythRecently, I was talking with one of my momma friends about our personal transformations into motherhood, and when the topic of postpartum…10 min read·Feb 19, 2016----